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CCRC vs. Independent Living

What To Look For When Comparing Continuing Care Retirement Communities To Independent Living

When starting the beginning stages of exploring retirement living, there are a variety of options and different types of communities to consider. The biggest “divide” within senior living is comparing Continuing Care Retirement Communities (CCRCs) vs. Independent Living. In most cases, as you begin your exploration – deciding which type you gravitate toward more is critical.

Below, we’re offering some valuable questions to ask yourself and areas you may want to dig deeper into to help you decide whether a CCRC or an Independent Living Community is the right move for you.

What Levels Of Care Or Additional Health Services Are You Seeking for the Future?

One of the most important areas to consider when comparing types of senior living communities is if you’re seeking health care services or will be potentially needing them later in life. At continuing care retirement communities, like all senior living options at The Wesley Communities, a full continuum of healthcare services is available. These communities offer multiple levels of care including independent living, assisted living, memory care, and skilled nursing.

Other senior living communities on the other hand, typically offer one level of care, typically independent living or assisted living only. In this case, if additional senior healthcare services are needed, those living in this type of community will either need to seek outside providers that come into the community or they will need to transfer to another community or health center. If you are at a stage of life where some health services are needed and there is potential for additional services to be needed soon, a continuing care retirement community may be a better fit for you.

What Is Your Financial Situation?

Just like with any move, assessing your financials is a crucial component when looking into retirement. CCRCs tend to be more expensive than assisted/independent living communities because there are more services and amenities available to pick and choose from.

When considering financials in this scenario, the best course of action would be to:

  1. Outline some financial hypotheticals for a variety of health situations at a CCRC,
  2. Compare those costs to moving to an independent living community and having to move or transfer to an assisted living setting or health center for health-related reasons.

By comparing the costs this way, you can better assess your financial situation with what expenses you may face in the future.

What Stage Of Life Are You In And Are You Wanting To Move Again Down The Road?

As mentioned above, CCRCs offer the ease of transitioning through multiple levels of care all in the comfort of one community. Many residents start out in independent living and transition through assisted living, memory care and long-term care in the skilled nursing facility of the community. That being said, some people would prefer to be in a community of only people in their similar life situation and are open to another move down the road. You’ll want to consider which type of environment is most important to you and how you feel about moving again later in life.

What Is Important To Your Family Or Children (If Applicable)?

Children or other family members often play an important role in loved ones moving to senior living. If your children have taken on or will take on the role of a caregiver someday, it may be a good idea to talk to them about whether a CCRC or an independent living community/assisted living facility is more appealing to them. CCRCs offer more care options for children and families, which can bring a greater sense of peace of mind and comfort for the demands of life. In assisted or independent living communities, more care may be the responsibility of your children or loved ones when and if it’s needed.

Are There Any Unique Aspects You’re Searching For In A Community?

Are there other aspects that you’re searching for in a community that could be a deciding factor? For example, at The Wesley Communities, we have our Fund for Charitable Care which ensures that no resident needs to fear the loss of their home or our services due to a financial crisis outside of their control.

Our residents have additional security knowing that should they outlive their finances, they have a forever home with us. Many senior living communities have financial programs and initiatives like this that set them apart and add appeal and reassurance. Looking into aspects like this can also be the tipping point for picking one over the other.

Ready To Personally Compare The Benefits Of Each?

Continuing care retirement communities and independent living communities both have many wonderful aspects that make them unique and that make them the best choice for seniors. It’s important to look into what matters most to you and your loved ones, your health situation, and your financial standing so that you can be on your way to finding your forever (or temporary) home!

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Memory Loss & The Holidays

Caring for a Loved One with Memory Loss During the Holidays

Typically, the holiday season is a time of festive gatherings, visiting with family near and far, and that special cheer that seems to be all around. For some though, it is also a time that brings added stress and a feeling of being overwhelmed – those caring for a family member or loved one with Dementia care, Alzheimer’s care, or another form of memory loss assistance, oftentimes, fall into this group. Especially this season, with the COVID-19 Pandemic surging once again, this time of year looks very different for everyone and can be quite challenging for caregivers.

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Living With A Loved One Who Has Memory Loss

If you are the caregiver with your loved one living at home with you, try and use the holidays to focus on togetherness and lifting your family member’s spirit. For those loved ones dealing with memory loss, this time of year may bring more emotions including sadness or anxiety, and by focusing on creating moments of happiness, regardless of how small, you can move through the next few months together in a positive way. Share stories of the past, create holiday-inspired art projects or recipes, or decorate the tree together. And it’s okay to ask for help. If you have other family members in your household, lean on them for additional support to make the holidays as enjoyable as they can be for all of you, but most importantly, your loved one.

Make The Holidays Extra Special For Those In Assisted Living

If your loved one is in an assisted living community, there can be added difficulties due to the current pandemic & many states still having visitor restrictions in place. Talk to your community’s executive leadership or activities department to see how they plan to make the holidays extra special and see what options are available to you and your loved one. Many times, regular phone calls or virtual visits can still be scheduled and items such as your loved one’s favorite holiday cookies can be dropped off and delivered to them to bring an added sense of familiarity and comfort.

At The Wesley Communities, our teams have gone above and beyond to ensure our residents and their families stay connected during this time, and the holiday season is no exception. Whether it’s setting up virtual Thanksgiving celebrations or decorating our residents’ rooms with holiday wreaths and garland provided by their children, our focus on the well-being of those who call our communities’ home and their families remain our top priority.

How To Care For Family in Memory Loss Care

It’s also a good idea to speak with other members of your family about what may be best for your loved one with memory loss during the holidays. Have an open discussion about how you are going to approach this time and together, devise an appropriate plan for interacting with a loved one in Dementia care or Alzheimer’s care.

Some compassionate options include:

  • Send your loved one a letter from each of you and have them arrive on Christmas Day.
  • Send in a family video singing your loved one’s favorite Christmas songs.
  • Provide plenty of pictures to serve as active remembrance of the holiday season and togetherness.
  • Schedule structured activities such as music therapy, religious programs outings & exercise at The Wesley Communities.
  • Support the opinions of each other and stick to your decided approach.
  • However, any decided upon approach won’t be a one size fits all, it may make sense to mitigate the holidays as much as possible if you think it will upset your loved one or cause a new sense of confusion.

Help Those Caregivers You Care About

If you aren’t a caregiver but are close to one, take some time to put yourself in his or her shoes. Be considerate, check in on them, and let them know that you are there for them when it may be needed most. Do they need help gathering or wrapping gifts this year? Or maybe they need a day off to themselves. Whatever it may be that would make this time of year a little brighter for them and their loved ones, try and make it happen.

The 2020 holiday season is one of many mixed feelings – all of which are valid and normal given the world we are living in. But, we are family and we are in this together. Be kind to yourself this time of year and know that the role you play as a caregiver in your loved one’s life is selfless and commendable.

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Passions Continue with Friends at Wesley Glen

At Wesley Glen Retirement Community, there is a variety of opportunities for residents to explore and find where their passions lie. And, if there is something that may not be on the regular calendar of activities that sparks interest, residents are encouraged and supported in creating their own activities, groups, or in this case, committee. What started years ago as some residents with an interest in various aspects of the natural environment that surrounds Wesley Glen, has turned into an organized, structured, and innovative resident Nature Committee – one that we are fortunate to have. Click the link above to read more about the Nature Committee and one of its recent, exciting projects.


The Season has Changed, but the Global Pandemic hasn’t : How to Stay Active and Limit Isolation with the Colder Weather

The global pandemic hasn’t been easy for anyone. Especially for older adults, the lack of normalcy and decreased interaction with others has significantly contributed to feelings of isolation, sadness, and overall mental and physical health decline.

The one saving grace the past few months was the warmer weather of summer. With small group gatherings (if masks are worn) being approved in many states, time spent outdoors has helped seniors feel more social and happier.

Now that the season has changed and the temperatures have dropped, many are worried that being unable to be outside as much could have additional negative effects to an already not-so-great time.

To help try and ease concerns, we’ve complied some ideas and resources to stay active and limit isolation in the colder weather. Click the link above to read more.


Change Your Address, Not Your Lifestyle

Making the transition to senior living can be difficult, but for many residents at Wesley Glen Retirement Community, knowing that they could continue to pursue their passions and interests was something that made the decision a little easier. Joan has always had a green thumb and a love for gardening. Before she moved to our community, she spent a lot of her time outdoors, tending to her home garden, and sharing herbs and vegetables with her neighbors and friends.

Once Joan joined us at Wesley Glen, our team learned about her desire to have a garden of her own and introduced her to Chacey Lane – an entire row of gardening plots right on campus. Without a moment’s hesitation, Joan reserved her space and now her garden blooms with basil, oregano, green peppers, parsley, mint, and black cherry tomatoes, just to name a few! She also loves to help other residents with their gardens and often, offers tips and tricks, and of course, an extra set of hands.

When Joan isn’t cooking her own meals with the herbs and vegetables she grows, she finds a lot of joy in sharing with her Wesley Glen neighbors and our Executive Chef, Kevin. On a regular basis, Chef Kevin holds educational and entertaining cooking demonstrations and sometimes, uses Joan’s garden for ingredients. He recently did a pesto demonstration and Joan’s basil was the star of the show! Click the link above to learn more about Joan’s garden and why it has been a lovely addition to her home!


“This Is My Home” – Jerry Shares His Thoughts on Life at Wesley Woods at New Albany

Jerry Krumdieck came to Wesley Woods at New Albany in 2017 after his wife of 44 years unfortunately passed away. Before moving, Jerry lived in a 5-bedroom, 3-bathroom home in Gahanna and while he loved his neighbors and of course, his home, he began to feel a real sense of loneliness. He and his Bengal cat, Henry, shared the entire house and it started to be a lot of upkeep.

Previously, Jerry and his wife looked at many retirement communities. None of them seemed to be what they were looking for, and they didn’t see themselves living the fulfilling lives they wanted to once they reached retirement. That was until Jerry met Emily Smith-Conlon, a marketing representative from Wesley Woods at New Albany at the Gahanna Senior Center and learned about our community. Interestingly enough, Jerry was familiar with The Wesley Communities as his wife’s step-grandfather was one of the first residents of Wesley Glen Retirement Community, a sister community of Wesley Woods. Although Jerry was somewhat hesitant and unsure about making a move, he agreed to meet with Emily again. During his visit, our community was still in the development stages, but just by the drawings, Jerry said, “I fell in love.” Click the link above to learn more about how Wesley Woods at New Albany has become Jerry’s home.


Warm Weather Safety Tips for Seniors

Now that we are in the thick of summer, the increase in temperature has not only become more noticeable but it has also become something to take into serious consideration before heading outside, especially for seniors. Before you plan your next activity outdoors, follow some of the our tips to ensure you’re staying healthy and safe. Click the link above to read more.

 


We Are Family

We are facing a difficult and scary time right now. Our lives have been flipped upside down, emotions are heightened and in more cases than not, fear has taken the front seat.

While hard times surround us, we urge everyone to take a deeper look and to remember why we are here in the first place.

We have been through a journey with each and every one of our residents, patients, and families. Why did you seek us originally? Maybe Mom could no longer do the stairs in her house. Or maybe, Grandma was having difficulty remembering to take her daily medications and needed a nurse to help. Maybe Dad couldn’t bathe himself anymore. Whatever the factor was, you needed a place that was there for you, that would care for Mom, Dad, or Grandma like you care for them. You needed us, and you found us, and from there, another form of “family” began.

We treat your loved one as if they are our family, not only caring for them, but growing with them. We share joy in the important, happy days with them like holidays and anniversaries, and we comfort them in sadness and grief when it’s needed most. We know them by name, we know their children, and we know their children’s children. We worry about them and protect them as if they are our family and we do everything we can to fight for them, not just in the face of a pandemic, but always.

Our communities and teams are made up of clinicians and professionals in a variety of specialties. We have so many passionate people in such important roles. From doctors and nurses, to life enrichment coordinators and admissions, we all have unique roles and different responsibilities, but we all share one thing in common and that is that to us, your family has become our family.

We are a wonderful place filled with dedicated, hardworking people who followed a passion – a passion to serve. We give your loved ones medication, and exercise, and help them go to sleep at night. We dance with them and create beautiful pieces of artwork with them. We work to help your loved one walk again or to button a shirt again, and we smile with tears in our eyes as they do it. We work with families on new treatments and diagnoses, and we hold their hands when news might not be so good. We lend our families a shoulder when it’s needed, and we reassure them that we are here for love, support, and sympathy.

And when a pandemic unexpectedly hits – we rise, and we fight, and we protect. We monitor your loves ones day in and day out, constantly assessing and evaluating while still providing a lifestyle of positivity among the darkness. Our staff adapts quickly, following CDC and state guidelines, while putting important regulations and additional PPE in place. We listen to each other and support each other as a team. We react and we push forward. We work hard together, and lean on each other, and we make sure to thank each other. We do our best to keep families connected through FaceTime, window visits, and letters, and we find comfort in local businesses who donate and help. We protect your loves ones, we fight for your loved ones and soon, we will overcome. We are resilient and we are family.

 

This article was inspired by a Facebook post written by a Wisconsin nursing manager named Rachel encouraging those to spread the word.


National Nutrition Month – Meet Executive Director of Dining Services, Lisa Wolfe, RD, LD

March is National Nutrition Month and at The Wesley Communities, we are fortunate to have our Executive Director of Dining Services, Lisa Wolfe, RD, LD. As an Ohio State University graduate, Lisa studied Medical Dietetics and soon after, became a Registered Dietitian. Lisa first started with our communities in 2005, as a Clinical Dietitian focusing on clinical nutrition and monitoring resident care. From that position, Lisa’s career progressed to Assistant Director of Dining Services positions throughout our communities, which gave her valuable experience in not only nutrition but also in improving our dining services to meet the needs of our residents. Click the link above to learn more about Lisa.


Black History Month and Its Place in Ohio

Every year, the month of February is dedicated to celebrating Black History Month, a time to recognize and honor the contributions and heroic stories of African Americans. Did you know that there have been many significant moments over the decades that have advanced black culture in Ohio? Below we’ve included a timeline of some monumental moments right here in The Buckeye State. Click the link above to read the full list.